Juggling Two
Here’s what I’ve learned about having two kids under two years old so far:
- Empty the diaper pail. Now. Even though Kelvin is cloth-diapered 95% of the time, it’s crazy how fast the diaper pails fill up!!
- Let the house go. Honestly, the only things I’m keeping up with right now are laundry and dishes. I wash laundry one day, fold it the next (we do laundry every other day around here). I run the dishwasher every other day and empty it the next day. I try to pick up the living room once a day after Ava goes to bed. That’s about all I have time for at this point and that’s OK for right now! A little dust never killed anyone!
- Don’t expect too much. Two kids is a full-time job (especially when one has acid reflux and insists on being held CONSTANTLY!), so I try to be realistic in my expectations on what I can get done.
- I can spend quality time with Ava while I’m tied down nursing Kelvin. We read lots of books while I’m feeding him!
- Stay connected to friends and family. It’s important for me just to have people to talk to and share every day life with, and it’s important to them because they want to keep up to date on everything going on with the kids, especially since all our family lives so far away.
- Turn on some music or the TV. It’s really hard sometimes being stuck in the house with only two little people, neither of which can string two words together. Background noise is essential to maintain my sanity!
- Showers rock! It took me awhile to figure out how to squeeze in a daily shower (by myself), but I think I have it down now. At this point, that’s pretty much the only thing I get to do everyday for me, so I look forward to it.
- Use a baby carrier. Kelvin’s still getting used to it, but my Peanut Shell is a lifesaver sometimes!
- Ignore the clock. There’s no point in even trying to get anything done by a certain time when my everyday life is dictated by two people who can’t tell time.
- Don’t blink. Even though it can be overwhelming sometimes, I know I’ll look back and miss this someday. It’s going to go so fast and if I blink I might miss it!
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